Well, this past week has been full of a few new things from our precious little girl.
Last week, while visiting Grandpa in Portland, Vienne took her very first 4 steps on her own, away from her Daddy's secure hand. It was very exciting and showed us that she may just be closer to fully walking on her own than we thought! She has grown very skilled at scaling the walls and really only needs one hand on the wall or furniture to get around. I think it's more for her own security than anything else...like she doesn't realize that she really can do it on her own. One characteristic I've really been noting about this little girl is that she is in no rush to acquire a new skill...or at least hasn't been up until this point. She takes her own leisurely time and doesn't need to prove anything. It's funny. Most kids I see are just so dang determined! She's totally skipped the crawling stage...and if I haven't mentioned before, we've already gotten a lot of flack about that one! Like you can control whether they crawl or don't! It's funny - this girl can pull herself up to standing position and pretty much navigate around any obstacle as long as she can have a grasp on one edge of it...but, if laying on her back she canNOT sit herself up to save her life! When on her back, she is like a beached whale flapping her arms until you sit her up or pick her up! Isn't that weird?? I know she'll learn it on her own, soon enough...but it is strange. She'll be walking on her own soon, but won't even know how to sit up on her own....like a turtle flipped on it's back!
Well, along with this new realization that she is sooooo close to walking, she has just actually given up the interest in scaling the walls in preference to holding our hand and walking her all around the house, in circles, back and forth. It's terrible and tiring. And, of course since I am not game to do this for more than one loop around the house, she has begun to reveal her first selfish tantrums! I experienced the very first full-body fit just the night before last. It was sooo strange for me to watch! Let me explain - this girl has been sooo mild-tempered and easily consoled and distracted. Now, she knows what she wants and it's all that's on her mind and she will scream to get it...finally showing that 'determination' that I thought she lacked! I was a kindergarten teacher for like 4 years...I've seen my fair share of fits, so I don't give in too easily. I just stood over her and watched her thrash until she calmed down, panting and gasping for breath. Then I held her until she was breathing normal. Once she was calm and content, I let her walk just a bit. But, I want to nip this in the butt as soon as I can...I am not one who will placate her through her tantrums and give her what she wants. But, man oh man, it is so ugly to see this new side of your child! I should also add in, though, that that night we discovered a new tooth that just broke through the surface that day...thus, most likely explaining her dramatics and moodiness. Poor girl.
So, this week has been interesting...pushing a little toother forth and enduring many little fits. It's hard to get much done now when she's awake cuz she's so moody if she doesn't get to walk about, holding my hand. Eventually, I just sit her on her bum, or leave her holding onto the couch and tell her that if she wants to walk that she needs to do it on her own. Yeah, that's not getting across to her too well...but, that's my mentality! Anyone have any suggestions for how they've dealt with their baby's tantrums??
Through all of this, Vienne surprised us the other night by sleeping fully through the night! What a treat for me! So, despite the fact that she is breaking a tooth forth, I am going to go ahead and start weaning her from her one night time feeding...which, I know, is against the books. "They" instruct you to wait til their body is not going though anything traumatic, but I think she is ready and I want to follow through with what she accomplished the other night by doing it all on her own. So, that's my new endeavor...maybe this Mama will be more refreshed and rested through the days! yay!
Here are a few pictures...
This is my "mild baby" - the one who sits on the counter and plays with garlic cloves for 20-30 minutes while I cook. But, this is soon to change, I am learning!
So close to doing it on her own.
Bored with that...now wants my hand!
Starting to whine and getting close to a possible fit...
This is her yelling for me since I walked out of the room...haha